December 12, 2011

How to Gang Bang Like a Porn Star

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How to host a gang bang

Four years ago in London, the adult entertainment star Sabrina Deep had a revolutionary idea: to allow fans to experience what they saw in her films. A few days later, for her twenty-ninth birthday, she threw a party during which she had sex with 77 men for eight hours straight. To date that is the longest and most populated gang bang to grace the internet (she livecast it, of course!).

Since then, Deep has continued to host gang bangs, also kicking off her World Bukkake Tour, which invites fans to participate in bukkake activities en masse. Last year, Deep came to Los Angeles after posting an invitation for local fans to come and join her for a gang bang. Being the curious cats that we are, we hit her up to answer some very pressing questions. OK, maybe just one: in the event we decided we wanted to host our own gang bang, what should we keep in mind?

Work it

You’re having a gang bang, so prepare a few hours of sex — minimum. If a particularly energetic two-hour long session leaves your legs and back feeling like ground beef, working out is imperative.

“Strengthen your core muscle with some appropriate regular exercise first of all,” Deep suggests. “Holding certain positions for hours can be physically draining if you’re not trained.”

Post it

Deep posted the call to fans on her blog, but you don’t have to be a famous porn star to make it happen. Social networks and local boards can help you get a group of people together. As always, exercise caution and make sure people are tested for STIs and HIV.

Plan it

Establish your rules with participants. Deep’s rules are no fingering, kissing, creampie, watersports, forcing, disrespect.

“There’s a very strict check on testing and cleaning and of course a minimum of discreet security on site,” she tells us. Because she likes to feel like the experience is one-on-one with her fans, Deep doesn’t put any restrictions on how long or how many positions a fan can engage her. But you are welcome to do whatever you want — it’s your gang bang, right?

“Condoms, respect, good attitude, baby wipes, lube — more or less in that order,” Deep rattles off, listing her top gang bang must-haves. Make sure it’s somewhere comfortable, too, and that you have people in place should things get out of hand.

Love it

“Real arousement keeps you naturally lubricated and mentally strong on top of increasing your stamina,” Deep says. “I would not recommend doing gang bangs if you are moved by other reasons than the one above. Eroticism is in people’s brain, not in sexual acts. Sexual acts are the tool, not the target. Many women blame their partners and situations for not being able to climax without understanding that it all starts from them. Yes, I do orgasm for real and there is much more than the orgasm. Never do a gang bang if it does not arouse your feelings of sexual desire.”

Keep it fluid

“The ultimate goal is that everybody enjoys the fun,” Deep says about keeping order during a gang bang. “There is no specific amount of time set. The guys know that they need to leave others the chance to get pleased.”

Every once in a while, a guy will need a word from the crew to let someone else get a turn, but for the most part participants know the fun is also in alternating the action with the watching.

You can follow Sabrina Deep on Twitter for more tips, bangs and bukkake fun: @SabrinaDeep

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