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		<title>Let There Be Sex</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Genesis 1 and 2 contain two modes of creation by God: if you read through the two chapters as a narrative, God first creates everything by decree and then creates everything by building up reality from the clay of Eden. And in both of these modes, the creation culminates in the creation of the human pairing — and even more, in the explicit charge to have sex!]]></description>
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<p>Without a doubt, the beginning of the Bible is the most controversial text in Western culture. Despite the controversies, it seems as if most people haven&#8217;t actually looked at Genesis 1 and 2 very carefully. For instance, there seems to be something already in existence at the beginning of Genesis 1: &#8220;the deep&#8221; and &#8220;the waters&#8221; are presumed to exist before Creation happens. So the Bible doesn&#8217;t portray God creating <i>ex nihilo</i>, and that&#8217;s true whether hundreds of years of tradition likes it or not.</p>
<p>Also oft-surprising is that Genesis 1 and 2 contain two modes of creation by God: if you read through the two chapters as a narrative, God first creates everything by decree and then creates everything by building up reality from the clay of Eden. And in both of these modes, the creation culminates in the creation of the human pairing — and even more, in the explicit charge to have sex!</p>
<p>To make that argument, I need to back up a second and clear some smoke. </p>
<p>If you check, the first creation account seems to go past the end of Genesis 1 up to Genesis 2:3. Despite this bleed-over, the first account is sometimes called &#8220;Genesis 1&#8243; and the second account is sometimes called &#8220;Genesis 2&#8243;, leading to a bit of slop and confusion about where &#8220;Genesis 1&#8243; ends. While I know there&#8217;s a good reason for that alternative numbering, I am sticking to the canonical numbering used in the Christian Bible: when I say &#8220;Genesis 1&#8243; here, I mean very precisely the first chapter of Genesis.</p>
<p>Genesis 1 begins with God in the dark, and the world hidden beneath a sheet of water in that darkness. God&#8217;s breath moves over that sheet of water, and He whispers, &#8220;Let there be light.&#8221; But the world can&#8217;t see the light when it appears — it is blurry, mixed with the darkness. God separates the light and the darkness and then separates the sheet of water, revealing the dry land beneath it. Through God&#8217;s words alone, the life potential within that dry land is called forth. Through God&#8217;s words alone, the lesser and greater lights are hung in the sky, the sea explodes with sea monsters and living creatures, and then the dry land is populated with all the varieties of animals.</p>
<p>Then, in the climax of Genesis 1, God creates humanity — &#8220;male and female he created them.&#8221; The first words that He gives to humanity are a charge to have sex, and in no uncertain terms: &#8220;Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth&#8221;. Now, the sex there is intertwined with the idea of procreation — sex and bearing children are simply indivisible concepts. While we contemporary readers may want to address these ideas separately, we need to realize we&#8217;re in a unique historical situation: pervasive, safe, and reliable birth control is a purely 20<sup>th</sup> century concept, and so it&#8217;s only recently that we have the luxury of divorcing sex and bearing children. Since the ancient Hebrews didn&#8217;t have the pill and weren&#8217;t too keen on homosexuality, the idea of sex is tied up with having babies — but for all those caveats, the sex is still definitely there, and it is how the story of creation ends.</p>
<p>Genesis 2 (as the Bible counts it) begins with God at rest. The world has been created with seeds resting in the ground, but there had never been water nor anyone to work the ground. God calls forth a stream to water the ground, and forms The Human to work the ground. God breathes the very breath of life into the face of The Human, and The Human comes to life. God plants The Human in the Garden of Eden, with every plant that is beautiful to see and delicious to eat. But The Human is alone, and while all the rest of creation may have been declared good by God, here God says, &#8220;It is not good that The Human should be alone.&#8221; With every physical need taken care of, with all the most beautiful and delicious plants, with all the animals of the world, with every comfort and power second only to God Himself, The Human is still alone, and that is not good.  And so God causes The Human to sleep, and splits The Human in two, into man and woman.</p>
<p>The man apparently won the wishbone contest and inherited the identity of The Human. When the man awakes, he sees the woman, and then we get the first recorded human quote — an exclamation of long-awaited love: &#8220;This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh!&#8221;  Even having been split in two, The Human is ecstatic at having a partner to touch, and to relate to in a very present, physical way. We are then told: &#8220;Therefore a man leaves his father and his mother and clings to his wife, and they become one flesh. And the man and his wife were both naked, and were not ashamed.&#8221;  Here we have another mode of God&#8217;s creation culminating in a praise of the human creative power in sex. This time, the praise is based on the innate need for each of us to be near another physically, to be touched in love and to join back together to become one flesh.  Here at the headwaters of the Bible, we find an acknowledgment of the loneliness that defines our existence and a story explaining why that loneliness is assuaged through joining ourselves physically with another: in a real sense, we are seeking the half of our body that is missing.</p>
<p>Now, the next words we hear from the man are in Genesis 3, and they&#8217;re him blaming the woman for giving him the forbidden fruit: even the Bible seems cynical about marriage. These words from the man escalate the chain of events that end with misery and pain being introduced into the world. So it&#8217;s true that Creation isn&#8217;t all roses — but this Valentine&#8217;s day, let&#8217;s have a Genesis 2 kind of night and leave Genesis 3 for another time.</p>
<p><strong>NOTE:</strong> <i>Thanks to <a href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0687342961/lovespiralsof-20">Terence Fretheim&#8217;s &#8220;God and World in the Old Testament&#8221;</a> for inspiring this post.</i></p>
<p><em>Robert Fischer is Sex and the 405&#8217;s spiritual scholar and cultural commentator. Behold the sacred and the profane &#8212; he’ll shy away from nothing. Well-versed in mathematics, computer science and religion, this man is a bona fide intellectual whose musings on sex and culture are delicate as they are incisive. How could we resist? How could you? Follow him on Twitter: <a href="http://twitter.com/robertfischer">@RobertFischer</a></em></p>
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		<title>Sex &amp; God: Accepting the Sexual Soul</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 21:06:14 +0000</pubDate>
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Sexuality and Christian spirituality have had a rocky relationship: from the Apostle Paul’s reluctant admission of marriage as a way to handle those who unfortunately “burn with passion” (1Cor 7) to medieval asceticism’s sexual renunciation to the contemporary puritanical disdain for sensuality, it seems like Christian spirituality and sex just don’t mix.
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<p>Sexuality and Christian spirituality have had a rocky relationship: from the Apostle Paul’s reluctant admission of marriage as a way to handle those who unfortunately “burn with passion” (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20Corinthians+7&amp;version=NIV"><strong>1Cor 7</strong></a>) to <a href="http://science.jrank.org/pages/8388/Asceticism-Western-Asceticism-Middle-Ages.html"><strong>medieval asceticism’s sexual renunciation</strong></a> to <a href="http://www.puritanfellowship.com/2008/12/sensuality-vs-biblical-beauty-paul.html">the contemporary puritanical disdain for sensuality</a>, it seems like Christian spirituality and sex just don’t mix.</p>
<p>But for the sake of the argument, let’s assume God wasn’t screwing up or tormenting us in giving us this drive to the most intimate of physical connections with others. Instead, can we conceive as prayers those short, shallow breaths that come when we tangle ourselves in another person’s pleasure? Can we affirm sex despite a long history of critics?</p>
<p>If we look carefully at this criticism, it’s important to realize that asexuality was traditionally associated with the spiritual/mystical vein of Christianity. Some people have this idea that the church is somehow dependent upon condemning sexuality for its identity: <a href="http://books.google.com/books?id=OwGPCsLiBlwC&amp;lpg=PP1&amp;dq=nietzsche%20on%20the%20genealogy%20of%20morality&amp;pg=PP1#v=onepage&amp;q=&amp;f=false"><strong>Nietzsche was one of these people</strong></a>. The pseudo-historical argument along these lines is that purity codes within the Judaism of Jesus’s time and the Greek/Stoic sensibility of Paul put a strong damper on sex from the beginning, but that’s simply not true: sex shot through the early church.</p>
<p>The sexual tone to the early Christian witness was so strong, in fact, that Paul had to tell women to keep their clothes on in church when prophesying (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20Corinthians%2011:5-6,13-16&amp;version=NIV"><strong>1Cor 11:5-6,13-16</strong></a>) and had to explicitly rebuke the “orgies” and “debauchery” going on in Rome (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Rom%2013:12-14&amp;version=NIV"><strong>Rom 13:12-14</strong></a>). So while Paul was certainly no fan of sex, it seems he was surrounded by people who were.</p>
<p>No, the early church was not particularly down on sex. Some itinerant or particularly zealous people took chastity as a spiritual gift, but it was widely accepted (even by Paul) that chastity was not for everyone. On this point, it’s curious to note that some women voluntarily went into chastity as a pro-feminine move.  Seizing power through sex in this way was particularly prevalent among those women married to non-Christian husbands. That’s a seemingly bizarre tactic in a world shaped by the much-needed sexual liberation of the late 20th century.</p>
<p>Where sexuality became vilified was when the soul became divorced from the body, which was a product of Greek-style mysticism. While God in the Old Testament created us male and female and cared for us in our body and met us in our particular time and place, and while God came to us in the form of Jesus so that we might touch and feel God and witness the resurrection promised through the prophets, there was a moment shortly after the time of the canon when a foreign idea surfaced in Christianity. This idea, derived from Plato’s followers, asserted that that the soul was good and immortal and eternal while the body was bad and decaying and temporary.</p>
<p>Let’s disabuse ourselves right here and now of that idea. The bogus idea that the body is bad and the soul is good requires the ability to divorce the soul from the body—but no such divorce is possible. The soul and the body are in an inseparable dance, connected in the most fundamental ways.</p>
<p>Attempting to rip body and soul apart and consider each separately leaves both lacking. Talk about the soul without reference to the body results in a “soul of the gaps”: as science discovers more direct physical interplay in aspects attributed to the soul, the space left for a truly independent soul dwindles down to nothingness. Talk about the body without reference to the soul results in a mechanistic view that loses the big picture: our will shapes our physical reality in profound ways, and to see that we need only look at <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Placebo#Symptoms_and_conditions"><strong>the shocking effectiveness of placebo treatments</strong></a> and <a href="http://www.richardwiseman.com/resources/The_Luck_Factor.pdf"><strong>the study showing that we make our own luck by believing we’re lucky</strong></a>.</p>
<p>By recovering the union of soul and body, we can recover the spiritual quality of the union of two people. In fact, when we reject Plato’s philosophy in favor of God’s revelation, we recover our ability to live and love our bodies again. We recover the divine in the day-to-day living, in the romance of candlelight, and in the <i>eros</i> of art. We recover the basic fact that there&#8217;s a wide world out there, and that it is Good. What that means for Christian conceptions of spirituality and for our own conception of sex are ideas for another time.</p>
<p><em>Robert Fischer is Sex and the 405&#8217;s spiritual scholar and cultural commentator. Behold the sacred and the profane &#8212; he’ll shy away from nothing. Well-versed in mathematics, computer science and religion, this man is a bona fide intellectual whose musings on sex and culture are delicate as they are incisive. How could we resist? How could you? Follow him on Twitter: <a href="http://twitter.com/robertfischer">@RobertFischer</a></em></p>
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